Ingoma yeemvakalelo kaNeil Young malunga nokuba ngutata

Ingoma kaNeil Young ethi 'Father of a Daughter' yi-ballad yeemvakalelo malunga nobunzima kunye nolonwabo lobutata. Ingoma ibamba undoqo wobudlelwane boyise nentombi, kwaye uthando lwesithethi ngentombi yakhe lukhanya kuwo onke amagama. Le yingoma emnandi kuye nawuphi na utata ukuba abelane nentombi yakhe, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuzisa iinyembezi emehlweni akho.

Ubuchule bokubhala iingoma bukaNeil Young abunakuthelekiswa nanto; Iimvakalelo zikaShakey wakudala ziyakwazi ukwenza ukuba umphulaphuli azive ngaphakathi kwengoma yeyona nkcazelo yombongo kunye nengoma enye itsala umtya wentliziyo ngaphezu koninzi. Kukho imixholo emininzi echukumisayo athe uYoung wayisebenzisa emsebenzini wakhe ukwenza abantu bazive kumashumi eminyaka, kodwa, kukho into ethile malunga nentombi yakhe ebamba eyona mvumi idumileyo ngeyona yure yakhe ibuthathaka.

Ubutata mhlawumbi yeyona nto ithetha ngakumbi kuMtsha kunomculo; yindoda yosapho ezinikeleyo eye yakha ubomi bayo ngokuhlala ilapho ngabantwana bayo nanini na naphi na apho inakho. Umntwana wakhe wokuqala wazalwa ngo-1972, ngumdlali weqonga uCarrie Snodgrass, umntwana wabo, uZeke, kwafunyaniswa ukuba une-cerebral palsy. Umntwana wakhe wesibini, uBen, uya kuphinda afunyanwe ukuba unesimo esifanayo emva kokuzalwa kwakhe kwi-1978. Umncinci wahlengahlengisa ubomi bakhe ukuze aqinisekise ukuba uhambelana naye ukuba abe khona kubantwana bakhe kwaye aqinisekise ukuba unokuba nguyise olungileyo kubo.

Kwi-1984, u-Young waba nguyise okwesithathu xa umfazi wakhe, u-Pegi, wazala u-Amber Jean kunye no-2005. Ukuthetha no-Rolling Stone kwi-1988 malunga nobunzima boyise kunye nobunzima ajongene nabo ekubeni nabantwana ababini abakhubazekileyo, u-Young. wachaza: Akukho mntu waziyo. Nantso ke into. Isizathu sokuba bazalwe benokukhubazeka ebuchotsheni ngumbuzo endiwubuzayo noPegi [umfazi kaYoung], noCarrie [Snodgress, umama kaZeke]. Akukho ndlela yokuxelela. Umntwana wam wesithathu, uAmber, yintyatyambo nje encinane, ekhula njengentyatyambo encinane. UPegi wathatha amalungiselelo amaninzi ukuze alungiselele ukuba nomnye umntwana kuba kwakunzima kuthi ukujongana nethuba lokuba izinto zisenokungahambi kakuhle.

Kodwa oogqirha abaninzi basixelela ukuba ayinanto yakwenza nantoni na. Ndahamba ndayozijongisa, kuba ndingutata wabantwana bobabini. Kwaye oogqirha bathi, ‘Kusenokuba nzima kuwe ukuyikholelwa le nto, kodwa ubunabantwana ababini, kwaye akukho nto idibanisayo kwaphela phakathi kwabo. Yingxaki yokuba bobabini bane-cerebral palsy.'

Ngokufuthi ebomini bam ndiye ndaziva ndikhethelwe esinye isizathu okanye esinye ngenxa yezinto eziqatha ezenzekayo. Oku kwakunzima ukujamelana nako. Besijongene nayo, kwaye siye safunda ukuyijika ibe yinto entle kwaye siqhubeke. Yayiyinto eyayisenza sisondelelane ngokwenene noPegi, ndinamandla okuba nomnye umntwana nokuba abe yintombazana entle kwaye yonke into ihambe kakuhle . Ukukholwa nje. Ukuza malunga nokukholelwa ukuba kulungile ukuba sizame kwakhona, utshilo u-Young.

Xa u-Amber uJean ekhulile, lo mzuzu wachukumisa u-Young kakhulu njengoko umncinci wakhe omncinci wakhwela isidleke waza waya ekholejini. Nangona wayengoyena mncinci, wayengowokuqala owayengasaxhomekeke kuye, kodwa, u-Young wabeka iimvakalelo zakhe ngendlela ayazi ngayo ngomculo.

Umzila we-2005, 'Apha Kuwe', ubona u-Young ebeka uthando lwakhe olungenammiselo kwintombi yakhe kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzekani kwaye imvakalelo iphuma kuyo yonke inqaku elilodwa. Kwindinyana yokuqala, oNcinci uvuma ingoma ethi: Xa iintsuku zakho zasehlotyeni zisihla, Uze uzifumane wedwa, Uze ubuye ube nam, Vala nje amehlo akho ndibe lapho, Phulaphula isandi, Soku. Intliziyo endala ibetha ngenxa yakho, Ewe ndiyakukhumbula, Kodwa andifuni ukukubamba, Usenokuthi ndilapha ngenxa yakho.

'Apha Kuwe' akakho uMncinci owenza umyalezo wezopolitiko onesibindi okanye ingxelo, umyalezo wengoma usuka entliziyweni kodwa uqonde kwaye umbona ebeka intliziyo yakhe ngokupheleleyo kumgca ka-Amber Jean. Ingoma ingqina ukuba intombi yakhe ithetha kangakanani kuye kwaye akukho siqwenga somsebenzi aya kuze asivelise siya kumenza abe nekratshi njengentsapho yakhe.