Ithini IBhayibhile Ngesondo?

Fumana Inombolo Yakho Yengelosi

Igama:

Umhla Wokuzalwa:

Ukuba uzisa isihloko sesondo phakathi kweqela loomama abangamaKristu, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane iimpendulo kwiintloni ukuya kwihlazo elichanekileyo. Kodwa aba mama ngokucacileyo banamava abo ezesondo. Abantwana babo bubungqina!

Ke kutheni isondo isisihloko esingathandekiyo phakathi kwamakholwa? Ngaba iBhayibhile isixelela ukuba sibe neentloni ngesini sethu, okanye ngaba amaKristu kufuneka azingce njengamanye amaqela malunga neminqweno yabo yesondo yendalo? Makhe sijonge ukuba ithini na iBhayibhile ngesini…

Kwincwadi yeGenesis, uThixo wanika umyalelo ocacileyo kuAdam noEva wokuba baqhame bande inani labo eMhlabeni (iGenesis 1: 27-28, NIV). Ngethamsanqa ngathi, uThixo wasilahla sineminqweno yomntu yokuzalwa ukuze silandele lo myalelo.

Kodwa isondo ayisiyonto yokwenza ukuzala kuphela. Ukwabelana ngesondo ikwayindlela yokubonisa uthando olunzulu kunye nokukhathalela iqabane lakho. Ikwayindlela eqinisekisiweyo yokuhlangana ngokweemvakalelo okuyimfuneko kumtshato owomeleleyo wamaKristu.

Ibhayibhile ibhekisa kwezokwabelana ngesondo kwiGenesis 2:24 xa isithi, Ngenxa yesi sizathu indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina, inamathele emfazini wayo, baze babe nyama-nye. Kuyacaca ke ukuba uThixo wavuma ukuba neentlobano zesini nakwizibhalo zokuqala.

Zithini iingxaki zokusondelelana kumtshato wamaKristu?

Imicimbi yokuthandana komtshato wamaKristu yimicimbi efanayo yokusondelelana kuwo nawuphi na umtshato. Iingxaki ezidumileyo zibandakanya ukungalingani okungenakuthelekiswa nanto, ukuzithemba okuphantsi ngenxa yokungaqiniseki komzimba, kunye neminqweno yesini engagungqiyo.

Kutheni le nto imitshato yamaKristu iphulukana nobuhlobo?

Esona sizathu siqhelekileyo sokuphulukana nobuhlobo yile uxinzelelo kubangelwa ziinkxalabo zobomi bemihla ngemihla: abantwana, umsebenzi, impilo kunye nemicimbi yezemali zezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo zokuba isibini siphulukane nomdla kulwalamano lomtshato.

Zeziphi iintlobo ezine zokusondelelana?

Iindidi ezine zobudlelwane obusondeleyo zezi ngokomzimba ukusondelelana, ngokweemvakalelo ukusondelelana, ngokwasengqondweni ukusondelelana, kunye imisebenzi ekwabelwana ngayo .

Kukaninzi kangakanani abantu abatshatileyo bethandana?

Kuphando lwakutsha nje, izibini ezitshatileyo zixele ukuba zenza uthando umndilili wamaxesha angama-98 ngonyaka.

Ukwabelana ngesondo sisipho sikaThixo kuMtshato

IBhayibhile ayikukhuthazi ukwabelana ngesondo emtshatweni. Ngapha koko, amakholwa amaninzi acinga ukuba ibhayibhile iyakhuthaza ukuba neentlobano zesini ngaphandle komtshato kumaHebhere 13: 4 athi, Umtshato mawubekeke ngeendlela zonke, nesilili masingadyojwa; ke abenza umbulo nabakrexezi, uThixo uya kubagweba.

Ngokucacileyo umtshato sisitshixo esivula ucango kulonwabo olumiselwe nguThixo. Jonga ukuba sithini na esi sibhalo kwiMizekeliso 5: 18-19:

Wanga umthombo wakho unokusikeleleka,
ube nemihlali ngumfazi wobutsha bakho.
Ibhadi elithandekayo, ixhama elihle—
Ngamana amabele akhe anganelisa ngamaxesha onke,
ngamana unganxila luthando lwakhe.
Imizekeliso 5: 18-19 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Ngaba ibhayibhile iyakusikel 'umda ukuzonwabisa ngesondo?

Ilizwi likaThixo ligcina ukuvunywa kokonwaba ngokwesondo ngobungcwele bomtshato kuphela. Oko akuthethi ukuba iintlobano zesini ngaphandle komtshato azikho mnandi ngengqondo yenyama. Kodwa oko kuthetha ukuba uThixo akavumeli ukwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle komtshato. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba amaKristu azikhwebule kwiintlobano zesini de ube ufumene ukukhanya okuluhlaza kukaThixo ngomnqophiso womtshato.

Ngaba Kuphosakele Ukulalana Ngaphambi Komtshato?

Ewe.

Kuba oku kukuthanda kukaThixo, ukungcwaliswa kwenu, ukuba nikhumke kulo uhenyuzo;
1 KWABASETESALONIKA 4: 3 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nokwabelana ngesondo

Ndiyoyika ukuba xa ndiphinda ndibuya, uThixo wam uya kundithoba phambi kwakho, kwaye ndiza kuba buhlungu ngenxa yabaninzi abonileyo ngaphambili kwaye abaguqukanga ekungcoleni, kwisono kunye nokuziphatha okubi abaye bazenza kuko.
2 kwabaseKorinte 12:21 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Ke umbulo, nako konke ukungcola, nokubawa, makungakhe kukhanye phakathi kwenu, kuba kubabiza abantu abangcwele bakaThixo.
Kwabase-Efese 5: 3 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Kodwa ke manithi nani ngabanye, elowo amthande umkakhe, njengoko azithanda ngako; umfazi ke makayoyike indoda.
Kwabase-Efese 5:33 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Izenzo zenyama zicacile: ukurheletya, ukungcola, nokuziphatha kakubi;
KUMAGALATI 5, IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Kungenxa yoko le nto indoda ishiya uyise nonina, inamathele emfazini wayo, baze babe nyama-nye.
EYEZIQALO 2:24 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Umtshato kufuneka uhlonitshwe ngabo bonke, nebhedi yomtshato igcinwe icocekile, kuba uThixo uya kumgweba umkrexezi nako konke ukurheletya.
Hebhere 13: 4 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Anazi na ukuba abenzi bokubi abayi kubudla ilifa ubukumkani bukaThixo? Musani ukulahlekiswa: abenza umbulo, nabakhonzi bezithixo, nabakrexezi, namadoda alala namadoda
1 kwabaseKorinte 6: 9 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Sabani kulo uhenyuzo. Zonke ezinye izono umntu azenzayo zingaphandle komzimba, kodwa umntu owonayo ngesono, wona nxamnye nomzimba wakhe.
1 kwabaseKorinte 6:18 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Ukuba siyazivuma izono zethu, uthembekile, ulilungisa; uya kusixolela izono zethu, asihlambulule kuko konke ukungalungisi.
1 KAYOHANE 1: 9 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Ke mna ndithi kuni, Wonke umntu okhangela umntu oyinkazana, ukuba amkhanuke, uselemkrexezile entliziyweni yakhe.
UMateyu 5:28 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

²²ukukrexeza, ukunyoluka, ulunya, inkohliso, uburheletyo, umona, ukunyelisa, ukukratsha, nobuhiba.^{2. 3}Zonke ezi zinto zimbi ziphuma ngaphakathi zimenze inqambi umntu.
UMarko 7: 22-23 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

³Kukuthanda kukaThixo ukuba ungcwaliswe: uphephe ukurheletya;⁴ukuba elowo kuni afanele ukuwulenga umzimba wakhe, ngezinto ezingcwele ezibekekileyo;⁵angathabatheki yinkanuko, njengeentlanga ezingamaziyo uThixo;
1 kwabaseTesalonika 4: 3-5 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

⁶Kodwa ekuqaleni kwendalo uThixo ‘wabenza baba yindoda nebhinqa.’⁷‘Ngenxa yesi sizathu indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina, inamathele emfazini wayo,⁸baze abo babini babe nyama-nye. ’Ngoko abasebabini, kodwa banyama-nye.⁹Oko ke ngoko uThixo akumanyileyo, makungahlulwa mntu.
UMarko 10: 6-9 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

^{Shumi elinantlanu}Sela amanzi kwelakho iqula,
amanzi aphuma equleni lakho.
¹⁶Ngaba imithombo yakho ingade iphuphume ezitratweni,
Imisinga yakho yamanzi kwiindawo zembutho?
¹⁷Mababe ngabakho wedwa,
soze kwabelwane nabasemzini.
¹⁸Wanga umthombo wakho unokusikeleleka,
ube nemihlali ngumfazi wobutsha bakho.
¹⁹Ibhadi elithandekayo, ixhama elihle—
Ngamana amabele akhe anganelisa ngamaxesha onke,
ngamana unganxila luthando lwakhe.
IMIZEKELISO 5: 15-19 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

⁴Uthando luzeka kade umsindo, uthando lunobubele. Ayinamona, ayiqhayisi, ayizigwagwisi.⁵Akubathobi abanye, ayizifuneli, ayinakucaphuka msinya, ayigcini ingxelo yeziphoso.⁶Uthando aluvuyeli bubi; luvuyisana nenyaniso.⁷Ihlala ikhusela, ihlala ithembekile, ihlala inethemba, ihlala inyamezela.
⁸Uthando soze lwehluleka. Nokuba ke ziziprofeto, ziya kuyeka; apho kukho iilwimi, ziya kudamba; apho kukho ulwazi, luya kuphela.
1 kwabaseKorinte 13: 4-8 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

⁶Umhle, uyathandeka;
sithandwa sam, ngeziyolo zakho!
⁷Ubume bakho bufana nobesundu,
kwaye amabele akho anjengezihloko zeziqhamo.
⁸Ndithe, Ndiya kukhwela emthini wesundu;
Ndiza kusibamba isiqhamo sawo.
Mazibe ngathi izihloko zeediliya emdiliyeni,
Ivumba lempefumlo yakho njengama-apile,
⁹nomlomo wakho njengeyona wayini intle.
Ngamana iwayini iya ngqo kwisithandwa sam,
ukuhamba ngobunono ngaphezulu kwemilebe namazinyo.
¹⁰Ndingowentanda yam,
kwaye umnqweno wakhe unam.
^{Shumi elinanye}Yiza, sithandwa sam, masiye emaphandleni,
masichithe ubusuku ezilalini.
¹²Masihambe kusasa siye ezidiliyeni
ukubona ukuba izidiliya zidubulile,
ukuba iintyatyambo zawo zivulekile,
kwaye ukuba iirharnati zidubule--
Apho ndiya kukunika uthando lwam.
INGOMA YAZO IINGOMA 7: 6-12 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

¹³Izidlo zezesisu, nesisu sesezidlo; kodwa uThixo uya kubhangisa kokubini, sona nazo. Ke wona umzimba asingowombulo, ngoweNkosi; nayo iNkosi yeyomzimba.¹⁴UThixo ke wayivusa kwabafileyo ngamandla akhe, uya kusivusa nathi.^{Shumi elinantlanu}Anazi na ukuba imizimba yenu ngamalungu kaKrestu? Ndithathe amalungu kaKrestu ndiwadibanise nehenyukazi? Akunakuze!¹⁶Anazi na ukuba lowo umanyanisa nehenyukazi, umzimba mnye nalo? Kuba kuthiwa, Abo babini boba nyama-nye.¹⁷Kodwa nabani na omanyene neNkosi umnye naye emoyeni.
¹⁸Sabani kulo uhenyuzo. Zonke ezinye izono umntu azenzayo zingaphandle komzimba, kodwa umntu owonayo ngesono, wona nxamnye nomzimba wakhe.¹⁹Anazi na ukuba imizimba yenu ziitempile zoMoya oyiNgcwele ongaphakathi kwenu, enwamkelayo evela kuThixo? Aningowenu;^{Amashumi amabini}nathengwa ngexabiso. Mzukiseni ke uThixo ngemizimba yenu.
1 kwabaseKorinte 6: 13-20 IBHAYIBHILE (XHO96)

Iincwadi Zokwabelana Ngezesondo

Ezi zihloko zilandelayo yingqokelela yezixhobo eziluncedo kwisihloko se Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nobuhlobo obusondeleyo . Ezi ncwadi zimangalisayo zidibanisa indlela esekwe kwinkolo kunye neminqweno yethu yendalo yendalo ngendlela etyebisayo kwindlela yokuphila yamaKristu.